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Victoria Estrella Worch 38 years old

Budgets and holidays

Real Simple Magazine December question: How do you stay on budget during the holidays?

Ahh…no budget for me it is more about the rituals. I have a ritual where I buy my close friend Jennifer who lives in Boston a California Calendar and she buys me a New England Calendar. We have been keeping this tradition going since 1998. We met when I was doing my Junior year college in Rhode Island. I always buy a coffee cup for Imelda and Mercy in the business office from the Potter’s Guild Club Holiday Pottery Sale. A few years ago, I was buying everyone close to me the KFOG Live from the Archives CD. This year is number 16, so been thinking about that gift again. And what could be more of a ritual than Christmas cards!

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History in the Making

Can the #48 Jimmie Johnson team win another NASCAR Season Championship and make it four in a row?
Let’s me explain something here…if he does, this puts him and his teams up there with San Francisco 49’s Super Bowl wins in the 80’s, or  Michael Jordon and the Chicago Bulls Championship wins in the 90’s and many other historic sports moments. This Sunday is the final NASCAR race of the season. They finish off at Homestead, Miami. Jimmy has the Pole. You go Jimmie! A Southern California kid from El Cajon, 34 years old. We could of gone to high school with Jimmie Johnson! Well…not me…I was living 8 hours away during high school but my fun point is that we are close in age!

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20 Student Affairs Advisor Survival Tips

Back in October 2009, I presented the “New Advisor Workshop” at the CA Community College Student Affairs Association Student Leadership Conference at the Doubletree in Sacramento.  I always have a blast giving this workshop. It is a great way to meet the new advisors in the field and share our experiences. The following is the handout I gave to the workshop participants.

20 Fun, Helpful and often Truthful Student Affairs Advisor Survival Tips
for the New and Maybe Not So New Advisor.

  1. Always give thanks!
  2. Network! Become a member of Student Affairs Professional Groups such as CCCSAA and NASPA.
  3. You know the campus pulse-communicate that with your Dean, Chief Student Services Officer/Vice President of Student Services or the College President. They want to know what is happening with the students.
  4. Put your staff’s needs first. In the end, you will realize, they are the backbone to your department. Take care of them!
  5. Know your student government’s constitution and by-laws like the back of your hand.
  6. Know your student government and department’s budget, budget process, including signatures and history. I say, redo a form if you need to. Also, keep your own balance, check book.
  7. Find and review College/District Policy related to student government
  8. Learn the Ed Code (76060+) and Title 5 Regulations (51023.7). Key concepts Student Representation Fees, Shared Governance, G.P.A. and Unit Enrollment
  9. Know thy Brown Act, Roberts Rules of Order and Parliamentary Procedure. (Don’t hide it; I know you love having agendas as much as student government.) You will be surprised, before you know it other departments committees will come to you’re for help on running an effective meeting.
  10. Take time to understand the Student Senate it will make a huge difference down the road.
  11. Know and form a first name bases relationships with your business office, risk management, facilities, media center, public relations, print show, cafeteria, etc.before you know, you will realize how important that you know everyone on your campus.
  12. Find your favorite Leadership Training Tool, Assessment, or Personality Test. A hot new one is Strengths Based Advising.
  13. Email or Call on a colleague, which is what the CA Community College Student Affairs Association is all about! List Serve address is:  CCCSAA@LISTSERVE.CCCNEXT.NET
  14. Have food available at as many meetings or events as possible.
  15. Schedule weekly meetings with your student government president. Trust us on this one!
  16. Keep developing yourself professionally!
  17. Find your own personal way to leave work at work.
  18. Create boundaries now. Students will think it is okay to call you after work. Keep it at work.
  19. Accept your students Facebook invite AFTER they have left the college.
  20. Follow your own advice once in awhile :>)

By Victoria Worch, Napa Valley College. This list has been adapted from Doug Barr, Saddleback College, 1997. He originally was part of developing these advisor suggestions for a workshop lead by Marilyn Kaeche, Mt. San Antonio; Joe Hudson, Canada College and Steve Robinson, College of San Mateo for the fall 1997 CCCSAA Student Leadership Conference, Sacramento. As we say in student affairs, add your own tips and suggestions to the list. If you can, try not to develop the wheel. There are plenty of us out there to help you.

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Checking in

Reading: Facebook status updates
Watching: The new season of Grey’s Anatomy and Desperate Housewives
Thinking about: How to stop worrying about the future
Thankful: For all the help I got my family this morning at our Garage Sale. We could not have done it without them.
Looking forward to: Dar Williams concert with Marta and Matthias and I 2 year wedding anniversary.

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Staying Present

Lately at work, my maternity leave is constantly on my mind. It is is hard to stay in the moment at work. In the back of my mind I keep thinking about what I will need to train my replacement in, all while wanting to enjoy the time I have with my students and this great work we all do. This maternity leave will be my first break from student affairs work in 8 years. I know it will be really good for me. I imagine this break could bring me some new insight in the field and into myself.

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Home

This week, I added a new catagory in my blog. It is called “Real Simple” after the magainze. I’ve been a Real Simple reader for a long time. One of the things they always offer is “question of the month”.  I’ve always wanted to start answering those questions on my blog. I think it is a fun way to share some fun thoughts and insight.

September’s question was “What does home mean to you?

For me, home means favorite places. There are so many places I love inside our house. I love the eating table in our kitchen. It’s where I eat breakfast and look out the window each morning. I love sitting on the couch with Matthias and catching up on all our favorite t.v. shows, thanks to our Comcast DVR. And, I love our front porch. It is a great place to visit with guests, enjoy a really good book or sit and relax.

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Blessings

Even though I have about 5 months left in my pregnancy, I have already started the ultimate search for balance between work, home, and baby.  However, even though stress is alive and kicking, in the middle of it I know there are many things to be thankful for.

  • Being pregnant.
  • My husband willingness to stay positive and  keep laughter alive, knowing deep down I need it every day.
  • My “Valley of the Moms” newsletter from the Sonoma Mom’s club.
  • Attending an all girls Friday night  party with amazing women who lead, teach and advice at Napa Valley College and finding the support right when I need it most.
  • A working washer and dryer.
  • Having the support of my parents and friends only being a phone call away.
  • Getting a great night’s sleep.
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Something New

In away, there is always something new happening to all of us.  This week, I’ve got a new journal, my office’s new Id card machine and camera arrived and I am starting to really believe I am pregnant.  I am in the middle of my 14th week. Today, I heard the heart beat and got the green light from the doctor. This baby wants to be here. Last month, a fellow student life advisor told me that babys pick their moms, natural or by choice. Wow, I am having a baby.

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Checking in

Reading:  “Little Earthquakes” by Jennifer Weiner
Watching: Hell’s Kitchen and Drop Dead Diva
Thinking about: Time, how sometimes it feels like we have tons and other moments just fly by.

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Checking In

Reading: German comedian Hape Kerkeling’s travel journal “I’m Off Then, Losing and Finding Myself on the Camino De Santiago ” translated by Shelley Frisch
Watching: This Week in NASCAR
Summer Highs: 4th of July weekend in Tahoe
Looking forward to: Moving my sis into her condo that she owns!!
I will remember Michael Jackson for: “Billie Jean, We are the World and Man in the Mirror.”

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